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Portrait of a Superhuman

JULIET ALLEN - SEXUAL EXPANSES

For world-renowned sexologist Juliet Allen, sex contains multitudes. It’s more than a physical act between the sheets. It’s more than the pursuit of exponential pleasure. It’s even more than an intimate bond between two people. It’s a multidimensional experience of the self in relation to not only a partner, but the world as a whole. It’s an exploration of meaning, and value, and self-love; a dynamic that shifts and expands and is enriched by an honest connection to wherever you’re at in the journey of life. 

Juliet was always curious about sex. As a teen, she gravitated towards the carnal corners of second-hand bookstores - forever wondering what else she could earn about these largely hush-hush topics. This curiosity gave way to a deep fondness for the act of sex itself.

But it wasn’t until age 24, after the birth of her first daughter, that she was able to honestly give words to this intrinsic interest. Pregnancy and birth forced Juliet to sit down, block out any urges to escape herself, and figure out who she was, how she wanted to live, and then how to make it happen. 

What felt true? What felt meaningful and exciting? Sex. 

“I love sex. And I am so comfortable in my body. I’m that friend that everyone comes to and shares all their sexual stuff and asks me for advice." 

Now, some 15 years later, Juliet gives advice not only to friends, but has made a career out of doing the same to people across continents.

 

The Call to Adventure

Sexology was more than a course Juliet applied for in her late twenties, it was a calling. It felt right. It was the perfect avenue to monetising her love of sex, without sacrificing any truth or authenticity. She was all in from the jump.

She put pen to paper. She put finger to keyboard. She put her voice to a podcast before podcasts were a thing. And she followed that SuperHuman call to adventure all the way to a success that’s still growing to this day. 

 

More than doing the deed

The biggest myth about sexologists is that they exist purely to help people learn how to achieve or induce (better) orgasms. While yes, that’s an important aspect of Juliet’s practice, there’s so much more to it. 

“My intention is to support women and men to feel confident; to feel like they are free and empowered in their sexuality; and to have fun and explore pleasure and connection.” 

But her not-so-secret ingredient is to zoom out and help both individuals, couples, and groupings be turned on by life. Juliet’s mantra is that you will not enjoy an epic, ever-expanding sex life if you aren’t living a life out there in the world that arouses and excites you. 

And that can only happen if you are living with clear purpose and rigorous authenticity.

 

Been there, done that

As (some!) societies crawl towards increased sex-positivity, Juliet’s offerings continue to evolve. She supports individuals one-on-one, counsels couples, and loves working with groups of likeminded people. But this evolution is shaped not only by the world around her, but also by her personal journey as a woman, mother, and lover. 

In other words, she will not teach anything that she hasn’t experienced herself. Otherwise, it’s all theoretical and inauthentic. She wants to be able to say, every time, to every person in every situation “I fucking get it”

And this isn’t confined to sexual acts, but also to life experiences - emotions, challenges, and dark nights of the soul. The whole glorious mess of life both in and outside the bedroom allows her to serve the community in a more holistic way. 

 

Fairytale and mystery 

Juliet had followed her calling to excellence, but was fairly resigned to mediocrity in the romance department. That was until she met her partner, Nick, who she very quickly fell in love with and who, in her words, “felt like home”. 

Recalling this unexpected fairytale of a union gets Juliet a little choked up (as a self-admitted empath, she wouldn’t mind us telling you that tears did flow all throughout our chat), as Nick became a committed, loving father to not only Juliet’s daughter, but the two children they have since created together. 

It was during the birth of her third child, that her practice broadened in scope and deepened in meaning. Little Magnolia was gestating at a time where Juliet’s focus was very much on her career. She felt disconnected from the pregnancy, and the stress was overwhelming - to the point that she was questioning if she was capable of getting through it. 

But when her water broke at 30 weeks, and she was faced with the possibility of giving birth to a child who might not survive, she was forced to lean into the mystery of life like never before. 

And she continues to do so, both in and out of her practice, her household, and her bedroom, to this very day. 

 

SuperHuman Habits

Juliet now cultivates a deep trust in that mystery on a daily basis. She turns to Gaia, to the earth, to Traditional Chinese Medicine, and yes, to SuperFeast, to nurture that process. 

This process of cultivation allows her the time and space to really drill down and get clarity on her values as an individual –listing her top four as health, freedom, family & partnership – then allowing them to inform her big life decisions. 

Will this decision deepen the connection to my family and my partner? Will this moment of solitude offer the necessary freedom to stay on the right path?

Another of Juliet’s habits is to feel strong in her body, through movement. She wants to stand in front of the mirror and love what she sees. She wants to love how she feels, and wake up feeling vital, and excited. Again, her SuperFeast tonic herb routine helps nurture that vitality. 

That routine includes a 3pm tonic with Mason’s Mushrooms, Reishi, cacao, maca root, almond milk, and honey. Her hubby Nick, does Deer Antler on the daily. 

And what’s a SuperHuman to Juliet Allen? 

“Having the courage to do the deep inner work that is needed to fully show up in your truth; in what brings you joy in everyday life. And to get to the bottom of the shit that gets in the way of you being an epic human.” 

From where we’re sitting, it’s clear that’s exactly what she’s done… and become. 

Browse Juliet’s courses here. Check out her instagram here.

 

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